My big Problem with SPEAKING

[أم صالح]

Alsalmo 3alikom everybody

Befoe i joined to the unviersity i thought that my problem with speaking :) will solve after going to unversity


:17: but its became bigger day after day

im good at writing, listing and undersatnd but when my docter asking me at the calss i dont know what happen to me i cant speak as if i :wow: :bigeyes: forget all words

:boggled:

but when i speak with my self i keep talking without stopping !!!

now i'm in my second year at the unviersity and i couldnt solve this problem
please anyone can help me :06: :أفكر: :wow: :bigeyes: :28: :33:

[Dr. Sean]

Hello om Saleh :D

do you fear from your :06:
docter or your friend :33:

[Kubaj]

Hey Om sale7

Is the problem that you`re shy

or

your vocabulary disappears when you try to talk in public

[Another_One]

peace be upon u Om Saleh too

???how r u

i think the problem is inside urself

step by step in sha'a Allah u will figure it out

just trust urself

and try to speak with ur doctor even if out the class

imagine that u r talking with him now

u make a mistake

???is he going to kill u

????is he going to be angry at u

just breath and breath before start to answer or ask

it is easy sister

believe me

:( i had the same problem

in the first classes i was so afraid to talk with my teachers , students and people ...... after some days i discover some students talk with alot of mistakes

:33: i am better than them

???why would i try my skills with my teachers

:boggled: i started with alot of mistakes

but now i'm so sad ...because i discoverd my skills later

hurry up

u r good

:biggthump u can speak very well

:o just ask Allah to help u

with best wishes

;) hope i hear good news

[THE Kojima]

Al Salam 3alaykom

You reminded me olf myself long time ago because I faced the same problem. This happens to you because you panic while talking to your prof. First of all don't forget the famous saying "Practice makes perfect". I had to make funny mistakes with lots of my teahers and friends or sometimes forget the words and so on. I had this Job interview a couple of weeks ago and I totally forgot the word debate...I had to stay silent for a whole minute to remember it.Although The first language I spoke was English, But I'm still not perfect at it. Don't worry Om Sale7, don't think this is a bad indication or something.. just keep up the good work and try talking to your prof and friends in English again and again until you get good at speaking. . Another thing you should do is to watch lots of movies and sitcoms and stuff like that that come on MBC 2 or any channel because listening is an important factor in improving speaking. By the way you should know that sob7an allah all arabs can learn speaking very fast compared to other nations because our mother language nearly has all sounds of the world. Usually Chinese don't get too good in speaking ( I don't know why) they stay in english speaking countries for years and you can't still fully understand them because they're not saying clear statements

[أم صالح]

Al Salmo 3alikm all
thank you all
really i think the peoblem is im shy and fear to make mistakes

really i dont kow where is my problem
bro Another_One thank u
i'll try my best
calgary_dude
thank you
you know what's funny my majoer is TEFL (it's English ):shock22:
now i feel better but Ed3oly plz
:laughing: :o

[X-Night]

Hi there "Om Saleh"

I think that I've got an idea ... I hope it can be useful!!
how's your speaking with your friends??
if you don't speak with your friends usually ...
why don't you try to ask them to speak English
Language with you ... beside that ... you're an
English-Lang.-Student, aren't you? ... so now you
have a chance to develop your skill in you're
University, right?

i went to Berlitz Company and i have tested myself ...
when the speaking test came ... i thought it was the
tsunami earth quick!!! and when he begun to ask me
a few question ... i didn't understand what he's saying!!
usually when someone speaks with other, he/she could
smile ... i was so nervous :boggled: even i didn't know if i was
smiling or not ... after that he told me to develop my speaking
skill, and then I decided to speak with my friend by English ...
in "GENERAL LIFE" ... after that i went to Direct English...
and i had the test there ... and the teacher was surprised ..
he told me, where are you from, i told him: from here!! makkah!!
he said: no!! you're a big fat liar!!! what did you do to yourself?!!

well ... that what was happen to me ... honestly!!!

so ... you just practice and practice and practice
as " Culgary_dude " said ...

well then ... good luck with you're Univ. ;)


and thanks :)