In love...

Hiiiiiiii all…

I just wanna say that need help..and I wish that you could help me..

Im really going crazy..and about to lose hope…

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but before I ask for help. I must tell you that im in love..my story started one year ago..when I met a girl that I knew in high school..we used to go to the same school but we didn’t like each other…after a very long time I saw the girl in a place where I used to go with my friends for fun..when I first saw her I recognized her from the first sight. I thought that I should go and say hii to her but I wasn’t so sure that she will remember me..she saw me when I was walking toward her..and she smiled as if she remembered me..we started talking. and we spent all the evening chating together..after that day we became good friends..we spent every minute together and we were never apart. I was starting to have feeling toward her..and I was so scared to tell her that im in love with her..i wasn’t sure that she have the same feelings that I have for her..but I decided to tell her any way..and for the first time in my life I was luky..she was so happy when I told her and answered that she is in love with me too..

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At this point I thought life couldn’t get any better..i was finding my self falling for her every day,, more and more..i felt with her that im complete..that I fainally found my home..

After a while I had to travel away. to finish studding. the city where I had to go was so far that I had to stay there in a dorm that belongs to the university that im studding in .so I wasn’t going to be able to see her..

She wasn’t happy about that..and even that everybody was saying that we wont last together with this situation.. we didn’t care because we love each other.

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I left the city and I was sad because I couldn’t stand being without her..but our love remained at it is.

After a while I felt that my girl is not the way she used to be..i felt that she don’t trust me anymore..and I found out that one of my best friends told her that Im cheating on her with someone else..

I couldn’t believe that one of my friends could do that to me..but the sad thing is that the girl that I love believed my friend and sent me a letter saying that she don’t want to see my face anymore. and that she feels sorry that she wasted her feelings on me..

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I felt like I was going to die. I tried to reach her and talk to her but she didn’t answer me..i tried to do anything just to get her to listen to me but I couldn’t ..after a very long months she sent me a letter saying that she don’t want to be with me anymore..

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I cant eat or sleep since she left me..i have lost the hope that she will come back..

Now it have been about 3 months since she left me..and one day I got a letter from her saying that she is moving to the same city that I live in..to study in the same university that I go to..

I don’t know what to do??..i still love her ..even more than I used to before..i don’t know how to act when I meet her..

Do you think that I could get her to come back to me

Or should I forget about her and live my life without her

thanksss..............

Hi there
i don`t know exactly what to say :06: but i felt sad when i read your story and I`m sorry for you .

anyway here is what i think .
I think you don`t LOVE each other :33: maybe you just LIKE each other . If the girl is the first one you had met in your life I ensure you that what you feel is NOT love . Trust me :أفكر: , it`s not that i have been through such an experience but i have read enough to know so , and I feel so too .

If she loves you she wouldn`t have left you this simply :31: . without any discussion !!!

her last letter telling you that she will come to the same city where you live at is just because she wants to take advantage of you :33:
probably, she would leave you after whatever help she can gets .

sorry to say that but frankly I suggest * just forget her *

If things goes well between you and her don`t keep the relation like this any longer . Ask her for marriage :05: cause what you do isn`t allowed according to Islam rules , if you were a Muslim ..

Good luck & take care
:ciao:

Well, if you still in love with her, go ahead and meet her and tell her what's really happened, with a stylish romantic way XD.

I believed your story, so go ahead and just be yourself, that person who she loved the most, if you were really cheating on her , she can find out by asking your classmates , after all you’re going to be in the same school together, and news spread really fast , remember that .

But as an advise , just make sure that she wasn’t bluffing when she sent to you that letter, you know , the story about you cheating on her , she may made this shit up so she can get rid of you, so just be sure.

After all my friend, gravitation is not responsible for people getting in love.

And finally , I’m not that stupid , I know this isn’t your real name , or even your story , it’s really odd to see foreign people in here . But the story interests me, so I suggest my opinion. If does matter.

try no race:thanks for the advice. and I will try to follow what you said..

Mada mada dane:thanks for your advice..

Mathew is my name. im from Lebanon so you can understand why I have an American type of name..
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Maaan .. I Hate Love Stories .. or Should I Say .. " Sad " Love Stories >.> ..

Anayways .. Am With Ma Good Friend Mada Mada .. U Should Do What He Says ..

Good Luck ..