::watch your words::

Watch your words

Or your words might drown you

Hi bros and sister

Human-beings are the ones which Allah gave a really precious gift of speech. So we must use it very carefully without hurting others by saying wrong words even when you don’t mean it, because words once spoken cannot be taken back.

Our prophet has taught us that “he who truly believes in Allah and the last day should speak good or keep silent”. He also said that “he who keeps silent remains safe”. These traditions teach us that words are very important and they can either put one in trouble or save lives.

The British also say “engage your brain before you move your mouth”. This means we must think before we speak. A lot of fighting has taken place and lots of lives lost because someone said the wrong things.

On the other hand good words can solve problems, comfort people and bring people together. Since our word choices determine their effect on our relationships, we need to choose them carefully.

I just wanted to talk about this topic specially

And I hope that you give me your opinion

Because a lot of us, got hurt by someone who said something even if he didn’t mean it

And I want to say to everybody, that I’m sorry if I said anything wrong to you and you got hurt because of it.

!So be careful

Written by your sis

:ciao: Hiroshi

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hiiiiiiiii ma sis

you have agreat topic

and im with you in each word you say

im in some time become afraid in speak with english people :afraid:

becouse im afraid in giving them awrong word and hurt their feels
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soOoOoOoOo
from which u see
we must use our brain before giving any one anyword

thats it :ciao:

thanks you my sister for this great topic
and i hope to u anice life :D

sankyou :D alot
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I'm sorry I didn't reply earlier

Yes, I'm wit u in everything
Everyone must be really careful of what he says
cuz so many words have been the reason of the separation between friends

But please lemme go into sth u didn't talk about
It about what most of ppl like 2 call it Trick Question
It's the Q u ask 2 someone 2 know about sth else
And It could private so any person have 2 think 2 himself
Why could that person ask me about it If u r not sure
Just give him a confusing answer like I don't know
Maybe he is.... or sth like that
If u can't think why try 2 not look him in the eye

Now u got 2 reasons 2 think before u say
That's all

I'm sorry 4 taking ur time
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Best Regard
Lips Licker

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاتة

sorry 4 late

Thanks sis 4 the important topic

I would like to begin by this parable about a scholar who was the victim of gossip

The perpetrator realized his mistake and went to the man to apologize to him for having spread malicious rumors
The scholar forgave him, yet thereafter instructed him to take a sackful of feathers, cut it open, and scatter the feathers on the wind

Having done thus, the man asked him what else he should do

The scholar then told him to find and gather up each of the feathers — an impossible task, as impossible as erasing the harmful effects of ill-chosen words


This illustrates the damage done by false words and should serve as a warning of how important it is to avoid this sin

Idle words spoken without thought can be just as damaging to a person

every one should recognize that the tongue is one of the hardest parts of his body to control, and thus he uses every tool at his disposal to control it and not be a source of harm for his brother


finally, I would like to say that the believer guards his words as he would guard a precious jewel


thanks again :ciao:

Hi bros and sis

حبيبة هيسوكا

Hi sis, how r u doing?

Thanks for the reply

I appreciate it

Don’t be afraid of anything just keep practicing

Thanks again

Bye

Lips Licker

Hi bro

I’m glad to see you here

And yes, that’s another reason to think before saying anything

But I think that in some cases you can use those questions

Thanks bro for adding and the reply

See ya

Victory’s sword



وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

Thanks bro for sharing us the story

And I agree with you

If your feeling got hurt, it’s impossible to forget it even if it’s not that big

Thanks again





Thanks for everyone who shared us his opinion

Wish you all the best

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:ciao: Take care, Hiroshi

Hi Hiroshi :)
How are you? I hope you're great

It's a wonderful topic because it's a point that we all should be aware of

I think the problem is most when sometimes people say things and others misunderstand it, or understand it in a completely different meaning or even exactly the opposite, and once you say something you just can't take it back, so we always have to be diplomatic and tactful lol, specially with those who are very sensitive or ones who always act smart and try to read between the lines lol
:33:

:ciao: Ciao for now

Hello every body
thank you Hiroshi , very good topic to discuss .
first i completely agree with all what you said . so what I`ll add isn`t that important .

some people act like a radio :31: , they keep talking without even know what they say , and of course they will make mistakes and hurt people they talk to .

but there are some of them who do not make mistakes speaking to others unless they`re angry . this is what really hurts ,　its like a stab in the back , a friend stab .
cause the friend knows very much about you .

we all should Think before we talk ...
:196: anyway , my mouth is always zipped
lol


thanX Hiroshi :biggthump
:o and sorry for the very late reply
take care
:ciao:

Hiii



Naughty Angel

Hello sis

Nice to see you here

And I agree with you

:o Misunderstanding happens a lot

:09: And it really hurts ask me

Thanks for passing by

:ciao: And welcome back





TRY NO RACE

Hi bro

;) It’s my honor to see you here

Yes, most of the people lose their control when they are angry

And say something that they really didn’t mean to say

:biggthump Thanks bro for passing by







:ciao: Best regards, Hiroshi

hi
everyone has one tongue and two ears

???have we asked ourselves why

to listen more than to speak

and every word we say must be back to us

thanx sister

Hi

Another_One

Thanks a lot bro for passing by

:biggthump And you are right in what you said

Sorry for the late reply



:ciao: Bye

:أفكر: Hi
:31: i read ur topic b4 and i thought i replied to it
:33: thats really strange
anyway
whatever u said is truely appreciated
very true
and thats why those who speak too much usually get into troubles
:biggthump the best way to be safe is to speak alot only with ur friends
:196: and to watch ur mouth with others
:أفكر: friends do usually understand
thank u dear for this thread
though its too late
just forgive me
c ya

Hi sis

You are most welcome

Thanks for sharing us your opinion

Friends understand their friends

But the problem is when they are your friend and you are not or the opposite

;) Hope you get my point



:ciao: Bye