Questions that I couldn't find answers for...

Questions that I couldn't find answers for...

Salam Alekom everyone
I hope you all are doing great
Especially some people LOL
Well you see, It's been since I found myself asking
For some unanswered questions & I thought about coming
Here to share you these " Unanswered Questions" Hopefully
I'd find someone who can answer them....

Let's start with :
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry ????

Second Question :
What do you do if you've fallen in love with whom you are destined not to marry??

Third Question :
What do you do if one of the greatest Doctors in the whole world.. Told you that you've an incurable disease which you'll live with to very last moment of your life???

Fourth Question & let's make it the last one for now :
What do you do if you made a lifetime promise to your beloved.. & Then couldn't make it come true.........???

Please guys & especially those "some people".....
Tell me what do I do...

Your brother Mustafa

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry ????

Beat the living crap out of him
LOL
no

If the one who is making me cry is the same one who supposed to make me stop crying...well, then I think that person dont deserve to even know me, let alone being a close friend...and I'll let him go for good

What do you do if you've fallen in love with whom you are destined not to marry??

I don't think I've an answer for that
I just hope that never happens to me

What do you do if one of the greatest Doctors in the whole world.. Told you that you've an incurable disease which you'll live with to very last moment of your life???

!!Live with it I guess
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What do you do if you made a lifetime promise to your beloved.. & Then couldn't make it come true.........???

!!Apologize and get him\her something nice I guess
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I've to say, those were some strange Q. about some very odd situations...thats why my answers were somewhat unsatisfying I guess...anyway my point is : I cant really say how I'm going to react in most of the situations that you're talking about, unless if I've been throw it

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry ????

A- Let my emotions take over me. Cry a little. or maybe, a lot
B- get back to my sences and use logic to figure a way out of this
C- Get over it
What do you do if you've fallen in love with whom you are destined not to marry??

I taught myself not to fall in love with anybody
This may seem very odd being a girl who decided
never to fall in love .. Feelings are a blessing
And being a girl means having a lot of emotions
that can sometimes be hard to regulate
So, to be on the safe side, I decided I dont want to
be in love with anybody
Still though, If I ever get ingaged -inshallah- I
Will love my husband very much
And I will have the pleasure of feeling
pure
pure that I have known no men in my life
I have not known any
men whom I was involved with emotionally
because then.it would be very weird to be with a man
when you have fantacised being with another
boy, that was long

What do you do if one of the greatest Doctors in the whole world.. Told you that you've an incurable disease which you'll live with to very last moment of your life???

Propably, be happy that "al balaa" is in me
not my " deen" be glad that this is a "balaa'"
And a test .. and God only test those whom
he loves .. I might cry too .. I am sure of that
May Allah grant us safety

What do you do if you made a lifetime promise to your beloved.. & Then couldn't make it come true.........???

I will know that I have failed someone
and live with that shame untill I die
And try to make it up to them ..
spiritually


Thanks for sharing those questions
it is obviouse that they have stories
behind them .. well, everybody is
entitled to their privacy

God bless

Thanks Dream Catcher for your lovely Answer


& A deep thanking from the bottom of my heart to Hidey
whom really made me feel better
To be honest, each one of these question has a long
endless story, But I've never thought "while writing them here"
That you guys are going understand my feelings & try to help me out

Well for answering your answer I'd say
Non of them is typical "this is a compliment"
Because I was afraid some people will answer with things like
What do you do if you've fallen in love with whom you are destined not to marry??
I'd leave her/him forever, and start a new life.

Or you know this kind of perfect answers which don't reflect "Normal" human beings feelings

Well, Your answers were great specially
The answers for questions number 2,3
Because after reading your answer
I kept thinking what if Allah doesn't want me to heal from
an incurable disease, I've a limited time to live
40 50 even 60 years from???
Finally I'd die but if the "balaa" as you described was
in my "deen" then I'd have to live with it for all eternity...


So Alhmdullah always & for everything
& I'm proud of knowing there are still in the gulf who
think the way you do

& thanks participating in my topic

اقتباس:

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I taught myself not to fall in love with anybody
This may seem very odd being a girl who decided
never to fall in love .. Feelings are a blessing
And being a girl means having a lot of emotions
that can sometimes be hard to regulate

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Hidey...Hidey,oh Hidey
I'd love to know how is that possible?? it'not like there is a botton in your heart, you turn it off...love no more,you switch it on again and every thing is pink, life is beautiful and everybody loves everybody
.
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now I don't know about you...but I don't think that could happen

You are welcome, Mustafa
I am flattered:)

اقتباس:

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة dream catcher

Hidey...Hidey,oh Hidey
I'd love to know how is that possible?? it'not like there is a botton in your heart, you turn it off...love no more,you switch it on again and every thing is pink, life is beautiful and everybody loves everybody
.
.

now I don't know about you...but I don't think that could happen

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I am the kind of person who gets attachd to things easliy
So, I am doing my best not to get involved with males
in college , public places, work places and even male cousins
this is how I turn of my heart .. It's working like a charm so far
:أفكر:

Now thats more like it...you do your best
and left the rest to your heart
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hearts have their own rules

اقتباس:

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة dream catcher

Now thats more like it...you do your best

and left the rest to your heart
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hearts have their own rules

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I like to think that
I have a certain path
to follow in my life
whether it was religeouse
or not ... I like to have certain
rules to follow
rather than feel aimless
and this is a very seriouse matter
for one mistake
one tiny mistake can define
the rest of my life
and I don't want that to happrn

I agree with you Hidey, the more you get close to opposite sex the more trouble you get involved with so just keep it up blow your feelings up to your husband & tell him that you kept your feeling in the fridge to give them all to him but watch out not to drown him into your feelings ocean LOL
May Allah give you the best husband ever
Who appreciates you ....

Your brother in Islam
Mustafa

اقتباس:

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة MustafaMM

I agree with you Hidey, the more you get close to opposite sex the more trouble you get involved with so just keep it up blow your feelings up to your husband & tell him that you kept your feeling in the fridge to give them all to him but watch out not to drown him into your feelings ocean LOL

May Allah give you the best husband ever
Who appreciates you ....




Your brother in Islam

Mustafa

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WOW, thanks musta. <is it OK if I call you Musta even though it doesn't make any sence :D tehehe
Well, to be honest
I don't really think of that matter
much but it's rather important to
know this, otherwise girls will be
tempted into falling for anybody
It is always better to be on the
S A F E S i D E

God bless

Thanks Hideooo LOL
As you said for those who can they better be in the safeside
By the way, is it be in the safeside wrong?
If you consider it a real question that to be in the questions topic
Then don't answer it & I'll look it up or re-ask it again
in the questions topic

About calling me Musta :D
First do you mind if I call you hideoo ?:o
Second I tried to say musta aloud & found creepy LOL :blackeye:
So I rather to be called Musto :أفكر:
Maybe because when I was a child they used to call me
Musto >>> stupid , ain't it?:yuck:

So let's catch you later in another topic which's full of humor & fun
;)
:biggthump So long

Asslam Alikum,
Well, I guess I'll just move on..
for the first Q
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry

this very thing happened to me a while ago and what I did is that I forgeved the person who did this.. coz he is just too dear to me..


What do you do if you've fallen in love with whom you are destined not to marry??


I know a man who fall in love with a nice woman they are both muslims however he thought he'll never be able to marry here for if he did they won't live togther for many resons..
they are married for about 5 years and expecting there seconed child wihtine months...!!
however sometimes we might be deceived we might think this is the true love but later we might find out that it was just a phase..
beside love is really a harsh thing.. you either take it with all its hardness or you just leave it..
I think Hidy was wise enough to protect her heart..

about Q four ...
you know how you live day after day knowing that you'll never be better..
it is by faith.. if you have faith in Allah
it is only faith that give you the hope of a cure oneday..
and only faith will guaranty you all the deeds you might get on the day of judgment..


about Q five..

the real quesion is if this happened to you
if someone you love promise you and then couldn't make it true
will you forgive him\her...???
if you would then the perosn who you love might as well forgive you knowing that you are just a human being..


I hope I answered your questions
and trust me life don't worth it.. just don't get upset coz you might just end up being too misrable to live.. just think of your other good friends..
now you promise me you'll be smiling..
but please keep this promise...


Fee Aman Allah,
Amal Sayed

Ahem.... I'm speechless... I really am
Sorry Amal, But I don't know what to say...
Thank you so much for your inspiring words of wisedom....
Thank you again..

Mustafa

Asslam Alikum
Well, I'm glad I was helpfull

and you are so welcom to ask anything..

Amal

dear mustafa
may be am not adult enuogh to answer your all Q
but my only answer is pray to allah in faithful heart and believe me he won't live you alone
he will help you to get over your problems
that is what i have to do in your condition
and what should be
and i hope that you can get over your problems
this is it :)