discussion topic : marriages

arranged marriages

Yes yes I know weird title

And your all goin WTF?

Lol I just love discussing these matters

Lets c what wiki has 2 say about this

Arranged marriage (also called prearranged marriage) is a marriage arranged by someone other than the couple getting wedded

So now everyone knows what it means lets start

This here is my opinion you don’t have 2 agree

Marriage in general is a death trap !

Once your sucked in you just cant seem 2 find a way out

So do you actually think we need more terror?

Getting wedded 2 someone you haven’t met before?

Or worse a family member ! tan tan TAAAAA !

Like someone with a high position in your family(usually father or grand) comes up 2 you and says : you're gonna marry your cousin weather you like it or not

Y3ni 6ay7a ib chabdkum il bint ili u have 2 marry her?

Same thing goes 4 girls

But worse

Coz most family's don’t give the girl the freedom she needs or the chance 2 speak out

That is just narrow minded

If you force someone into something as big as this, the outcome will just be destructive

But here's the thing

Im not saying im against it

Not at all

Im against forcing a marriage

Hell if the two are ok with it, throw the rice

Moving on

Marriages between different cultures and religions

You all know these stories

I love him he loves me etc, etc, etc…..

But he's a muslim , she's a Christian

Usually not a big deal but don’t expect your family blessings anytime soon

Or he's suni she's she3a

That here is really messed up

Even though both are muslims

But you'll c the parents against it more then the Christian thing

Which is really just sad

There's a lot 2 discuss but I think ill give you guys a chance 2 say what you think about this.. and if I go on no one is gonna read the topic XD

Hehe ill be waiting 4 ur comments t.c all

Hi there

As for arranged marriages:
I can't say it is completely wrong because I had one prepared for me since birth,
but for some medical reasons it failed before even coming reality,
however I wasn't against it at all.
The thing is, you live with the idea and slowly you accept it.

However, since you didn't made that choice it may feels kind of annoying, you may not like how things been set for you, it is your life after all and only you have the right to make that choice!l

As for Marriages between different cultures and religions:
I'm totally against it, I would avoid any possible conflicts here
This is related to one's beliefs; I can't mess with that
Also, it is usually difficult to change
and I don't think I'll ever accept someone with different beliefs to be bound with by marriage.

Thanx for the topic

I don't believe marriage is a death trap
I think its beautiful
the end of your journey as a lone drifter..and the beginning of a new journey
with your partner :p

but I don't think its something one should rush in to
I'd marry when I find my own way rather than just marring for the sake of being married now
will I ever find my way ? no one knows

as for arranged marriages
I think thats one big joke
I don't care what elders say, when I marry someone..that means am the one
whose gonna have to spend his days and nights with that someone
not my Grandfather, not my Father and not my Mother
and am not some teenager trying to rebel against all things family
it is called rational thinking :p


As for Marriages between different cultures and religions:

am totally with Sander
am wholeheartedly against it
its not good for the kids

sandeR !
hey dude nice 2 c ya again

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it failed before even coming reality

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i would say thank god 4 new technology, but wouldn't matter since ur ok with the whole concept
yala 3ad , cheer up there's plenty of fish in the sea
and u get 2 choose which one 2 catch so thats cool :D

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it is your life after all and only you have the right to make that choice!

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yep, my point exactly

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I don't think I'll ever accept someone with different beliefs to be bound with by marriage

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i guess thats your choice and i respect that
you got a good point there
you should avoid any kindda mess thats gonna ruin the whole marriage
but thats what's keeping everyone apart , dont you agree
thx 4 stopping , t.c :D

D.C !
yea im 2 lazy 2 type ur whole nick :p
anyway

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I don't believe marriage is a death trap
I think its beautiful
the end of your journey as a lone drifter..and the beginning of a new journey
with your partner :p

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did someone just knocked you over on the head :p
must be 4rm all the dreams u stole 4rm ppl ! HA its back firing on u :p
you made me feel like ur sitting on top of a rainbow while reading that XD
lol just messin with ya, im glad a guy finds marriage a good thing
since the majority dont

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I'd marry when I find my own way rather than just marring for the sake of being married now
will I ever find my way ? no one knows

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thats good 2 hear :D
will u find ur way << i unno sounds like an anime series
yes you shall 4 u r the chosen one XD

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as for arranged marriages
I think thats one big joke

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OMG ! i never thaught i'd c this day coming :O
a man with brains :O

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its not good for the kids

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hehehehe old guy XD
no wonder u sound wise :p
kiddING :D
thx 4 stopping , t.c

and again THX GUYS 4 SHARING UR OPINIONS I APPRECIATE IT :D

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i would say thank god 4 new technology, but wouldn't matter since ur ok with the whole concept
yala 3ad , cheer up there's plenty of fish in the sea
and u get 2 choose which one 2 catch so thats cool

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I'm fine with this turn of events
The decision is mine now

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you should avoid any kindda mess thats gonna ruin the whole marriage
but thats what's keeping everyone apart , dont you agree

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Not exactly
You see, I don't mind being a friend of someone with different beliefs
I just don't want to be married to one
I believe life will be too complicated for us, don't you agree?l

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I'm fine with this turn of events
The decision is mine now

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go sander its ur birthday << im'9ay3a :p
that's great :) its between your very own hands choose wisely :D
how cool is tHAT ! you can go on girl hunts xD

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Not exactly
You see, I don't mind being a friend of someone with different beliefs
I just don't want to be married to one
I believe life will be too complicated for us, don't you agree?l

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yeah it would be complicated but not impossible
though it is 4 the best 2 avoid any conflicts between the 2
wise decision :)

guys just a heads up
women r blood sucking monsters once u get in there's no escape :D
good luck MUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA !