Judge not according to appearance

[Sander]

Hi all, how is life?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, this means that something or someone is beautiful depending on the person who is looking,
i.e. different people have different ideas about what is beautiful, there are no standard here.

Although we keep saying “don't judge a book by its cover” and “Judge not according to appearance”,
intentionally or unintentionally, the way we treat people is usually affected by looks.

I once wrote an essay about how good-looking people get better treatments almost everywhere they go,
they get free stuff all the time, everybody seems to like them… etc

I’d like to hear your opinion; do you think this is true?

Does the way you look affect how people perceive your competence?

Have you seen anything likes it before? Ever been there?

If you are good-looking, how is it for you?
and
If you think that you are not that good-looking, dose it bothers you? To what extent?

Thanx.

[LongJohnSilver]

Hello Moody Person, how have you been doing? n
(I write the letter "n" in the end of each sentence in order to make the fullstops and question marks get to the end of the line, so do not bother :P) n

Well, about your requests. I don't know for sure, but it depends mainly on the general environment I think. I did notice however that sometimes (and I said sometimes), dressing neatly or having a good look by nature can give you some access to some exceptions, especially if you are a nonemployed or nonrelated to the institute you are dealing with. n

About myself, I honestly don't know. I neither consider myself a good-looking person or a not-good-looking person, neither did I heard someone talks about how super special awesome my look is; except for my mother of course :P n

[Mr.Rayan]

Hi Sander ,,

Life is quite arduous at morning ,, I'm quite sleepy right now

Thx ,for bringing up this topic ,,

I’d like to hear your opinion; do you think this is true?

Yep ,, it's true

There are lots of speculations
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Does the way you look affect how people perceive your competence?

The way I talk affects people ,, But I really look regular

I'm not interesting in cosmetic , for me it cools my heels

( Waste of time )
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Have you seen anything likes it before? Ever been there?

This phenomena is very trite

not only in my country , everywhere you go you would face it

I don't know why ? may be due to some racial characters , religious belief

or you're not pretty enough to satisfy his desire , xD

If you are good-looking, how is it for you?

That's better we don't have to coolour heels in front of the mirror

If you think that you are not that good-looking, dose it bothers you? To what extent?

As you said “don't judge a book by its cover” so the appearence is not that important

It does not nag me at all ,, Cuz every one could fake his apperance

by cosmetic or any thing that could make him look better

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My opinion is that the mind is more important than how you look

thus , we should adorn our mind and improve our wits Instead of worring about

our appearnce ,,

I might made some mistakes .. cuz I have just woke up

My sublime regards for thou
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[Sander]

Hello Moody Person, how have you been doing? n
(I write the letter "n" in the end of each sentence in order to make the fullstops and question marks get to the end of the line, so do not bother :P) n

Well hello there, it is always a pleasure to see you, John Silver, how is life?
As for me, I’m just fine, thanx for asking.

I did notice however that sometimes (and I said sometimes), dressing neatly or having a good look by nature can give you some access to some exceptions, especially if you are a nonemployed or nonrelated to the institute you are dealing with.

You can say that again, actually, you normally get more respect when you dress nicely.

About myself, I honestly don't know. I neither consider myself a good-looking person or a not-good-looking person, neither did I heard someone talks about how super special awesome my look is; except for my mother of course :P n

Okay, then you are normal.

If you were thought of as either good-looking or not so good-looking you would notice it,
people typically will treat you differently depending on the way you look,
if not all then many of them will, I’m pretty sure you would’ve notice something.

Thanx for sharing your opinion, bro, I appreciate it.

[Sander]

Hi, Rayan,

The way I talk affects people ,, But I really look regular
I'm not interesting in cosmetic , for me it cools my heels

True, the way we talk does affect people
Actually, the way you talk tells much more about your personality and your background

Still, the way you look plays a part in the way people recognizes you, will they accept you or not?
Usually, for neat people, appearance does matters, they give more respect for well-dressed people.

This phenomena is very trite
not only in my country , everywhere you go you would face it
I don't know why ? may be due to some racial characters , religious belief
or you're not pretty enough to satisfy his desire , xD

lolz
Well, even though it is a matter of taste, I believe it is there and is causing tricky situation for attractive and unattractive people.

You see my friend; many agencies for example involve looks as necessity in their employment policies, unfair, don’t you think?
it is a matter of taste after all, isn’t it?
Still, looks matters to them, it is because many people Judge according to appearance.

As you said “don't judge a book by its cover” so the appearence is not that important
It does not nag me at all ,, Cuz every one could fake his apperance

by cosmetic or any thing that could make him look better

You have a point here,
still I’d care for appearance a little, even if it is fake it is nice, why not like it?

I don’t see a problem in getting affected by appearance, it is only natural,
I just think we shouldn’t jump to fast conclusions,
give others a chance to fix false first impressions.

My opinion is that the mind is more important than how you look
thus , we should adorn our mind and improve our wits Instead of worring about
our appearnce ,,

Well of course, this goes without saying
Wise people would never fall for looks alone.

Thanx for replying, Rayan, I appreciate it.

[Mr.Rayan]

Sleepy as usual ,

Is there any meds that could wake me up ? , xD

Ahm , Ahm ,, Let's start

lolz
Well, even though it is a matter of taste, I believe it is there and is causing tricky situation for attractive and unattractive people.

You see my friend; many agencies for example involve looks as necessity in their employment policies, unfair, don’t you think?
it is a matter of taste after all, isn’t it?
Still, looks matters to them, it is because many people Judge according to appearance.

I think they are slightly fanatic ,,

Nowadays ,, Appearrence is more important that abilities

A wonderous hick girl ,, could affect people easily

As you said it's a matter of taste

You have a point here,
still I’d care for appearance a little, even if it is fake it is nice, why not like it?

I don’t see a problem in getting affected by appearance, it is only natural,
I just think we shouldn’t jump to fast conclusions,
give others a chance to fix false first impressions.

Of course ,, We still human

oftentimes , Appearance sitrs hicks easily

their speculations will depend only on " How you look "

Wise people would never fall for looks alone..

wow , I liked this byword

Anyway ,, Thanks dude ,, I really delighted by reading your reply
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[LongJohnSilver]

Well... n

Okay, then you are normal.

Oh thank you! It has been a long time since someone called me normal ... Just kidding, I'm referring to another thing; but it is true: I am normal, and I want to stay normal. n

If you were thought of as either good-looking or not so good-looking you would notice it,
people typically will treat you differently depending on the way you look,
if not all then many of them will, I’m pretty sure you would’ve notice something.

Well you may think it is strange, but if I would have to choose between the two criteria you have mentioned, then I would NOT choose to be a well-looking by nature. I would hate it when people love me or deal with me regarding my good look only. n

Well, even though it is a matter of taste, I believe it is there and is causing tricky situation for attractive and unattractive people.

Of course there is something like that, everyone likes to be attractive and to look into attractive things (or persons); but treating people fairly is related to the person you are dealing with. n

A wonderous hick girl ,, could affect people easily

Not me my friend, and not everyone; just the people that want to be affected. n

[Sander]

Sleepy as usual ,

Is there any meds that could wake me up ? , xD

Ahm , Ahm ,, Let's start


I think they are slightly fanatic ,,

Nowadays ,, Appearrence is more important that abilities

A wonderous hick girl ,, could affect people easily

As you said it's a matter of taste

You are right, Appearance IS sometimes more important than abilities
But then again, appearance is the first thing you see
By nature, we would prefer good over bad, beauty over ugly, wouldn't we?l

wow , I liked this byword

Anyway ,, Thanks dude ,, I really delighted by reading your reply

You are more than welcome, glad you like it.

[Sander]

Well... n


Oh thank you! It has been a long time since someone called me normal ... Just kidding, I'm referring to another thing; but it is true: I am normal, and I want to stay normal. n

I see, keeping away from complications.
Good for you, you sound satisfied.

Well you may think it is strange, but if I would have to choose between the two criteria you have mentioned, then I would NOT choose to be a well-looking by nature. I would hate it when people love me or deal with me regarding my good look only. n

Nothing is strange about this
Although you provided one good reason to not be eye-catching,
I still think being good-looking is better
It is only natural, we people always seek perfection
Anyone would love to have both, the looks and the skills, right ?l

As for the reaction part, well, some may care for looks alone while other care for qualifications
Those who cares for looks only are narrow minded
It wouldn't matter whether they like you or not if looks is all what they care about
Thus, their judgment – in both cases- makes no differences
At least, that is what I think.

Thanx for sharing my friend.

[Mr.Rayan]

Not me my friend, and not everyone; just the people that want to be affected.

A lot

You are right, Appearance IS sometimes more important than abilities
But then again, appearance is the first thing you see
By nature, we would prefer good over bad, beauty over ugly, wouldn't we?l
You are more than welcome, glad you like it.

That's right Sander
o