= Lying Truth =

[Another_One]

It seems that everybody tells lies well , not big lies, but what we call "
.white lies." Telling white lies isn't really that bad

.Most of the Time, people do it beacuse they want to protect a friendship


Some studies sugest that the average person lies about se7en times a day

:shock22: :shock22:

.The Only real questions are about when we lie and who we tell lies to

.A recent study found that people freuently stretch the truth

.Here are some ways they do it

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A. Lying to Hide Something

People often lie because they want to hide somsthing from someone . For Example , a son doesn't tell his parents that he's dating a girl
....because he doesn't think they will like her

:icon6: Instead, he says he's going out with the guys

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B. Giving False Excuses

Sometimes people lie because they don't want to do something . For Example, someone invites you to a party. You think it will be boring,
.so you say you're busy

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C. Lying to Make Someone Feel Good

Often we stretch the truth to make someone feel good. For Example, Your friend cooks dinner for you, but it tastes terrible . Do you say
"!so ?? No !! You probably say, " Mmm, this is delicious

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D. Lying to Hide Bad News

Sometimes we don't want to tell someone bad news. For Example, you have just had a very bad day at school , but you don't feel like talking about it . So if someone asks you about your day, you just
.say everything was fine

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In Islam method

they are three situations to lie and it isn't forbidden there

:icon6: A. Lying in tricks for wars

B. Lying to let to persons get together again

C. Lying to keep ur wife

D. Lying to hide ur islam

Hope u guys sisters and brothers like these ways

i meant the last ways

See ya

[مستر حريقة]

thank u my brother Another_One for the nice topic





QUOTE=Another_One]

In Islam method

they are three situations to lie and it isn't forbidden there

:icon6: A. Lying in tricks for wars

B. Lying to let to persons get together again

C. Lying to keep ur wife

D. Lying to hide ur islam



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but i would like to tell u that these r 4 ways instead of 3

but anyway thanks again dear

[Another_One]

thank u my brother Another_One for the nice topic

QUOTE=Another_One]

In Islam method

they are three situations to lie and it isn't forbidden there

:icon6: A. Lying in tricks for wars

B. Lying to let to persons get together again

C. Lying to keep ur wife

D. Lying to hide ur islam

but i would like to tell u that these r 4 ways instead of 3

but anyway thanks again dear
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u r welcome my new brother

at least u still better than me


regarding my mistake ... i was confused

coz three first points are in Hadeeth Sahrif

But the Last one is written in Holy Quran

that why i forgot to write it 4

Hope u forget it too ... and don't look for peoples' mistakes

they will look for urs

see ya

[مستر حريقة]

thanx my brother

but i dont really think iam better than u
u still the best man

and according ur mitake
iam sorry i didnt mean to just say

i just said coz u may make ur correction and at least be careful while typing

and about the people watching my mistake i hope they will do so

cause i wanna know the right things i dont wanna be still on my mistakes

i hope u got it

thank u

[Another_One]

نكاش روس
when i said ...really i meant it

i think we look for the same goal

no-one in this life is perfect as women thought


Thank u brother for posting again ... hope it comes again


see ya

[Star_Fire]

Wooh

Serious Topic ... i liked what you post Another_One

Some studies sugest that the average person lies about se7en times a day

seven lies !!! That's a lot :shock22: and who did the studies >> most definitely a bunch of liars

B. Giving False Excuses

me ... not me ... me ... not me ... okay okay i addmit
but sometimes
not all the times

they are three situations to lie and it isn't forbidden there
:icon6: A. Lying in tricks for wars
B. Lying to let to persons get together again
C. Lying to keep ur wife
D. Lying to hide ur islam

Hope u guys sisters and brothers like these ways

okay i'll start practicing as from 2morrow
thx Another_One
your really makes me feel Good
Nice One

[المكاويه]

Salam
i feel that "The Truth about Lying" would have been a better title
just a feeling
and sorry for talking about sth. which is none of my business
i wanted to help
****************

Most of the Time, people do it beacuse they want to protect a friendship

i believe that friendship is built on saying the truth not lying
and those who lie to protect a friendship must reconsider their attitude
coz this would really harm the friendship,, not protect it
what if they were discoverd to be lying
what would be their excuse
nothing at all
not even the word "sorry",, isn't it

C. Lying to Make Someone Feel Good

Often we stretch the truth to make someone feel good. For Example, Your friend cooks dinner for you, but it tastes terrible . Do you say
"!so ?? No !! You probably say, " Mmm, this is delicious

this is good
BTW
stretching the truth is different from lying
lying : is to tell the opposite of the truth
stretching the truth: is not to tell the truth
u would simply hide the truth
and that's OK,, since it harms no one
and it doesnt lead u to lying
OK
we would stretch the truth to make someone feel good
and then,,,, what
when s/he would discover the truth
the case would be more miserable
wouldnt it

*****

C. Lying to keep ur wife

Oh my God
men would really like this one
its their excuse to do whatsoever and then escape the results by lying
lol
not all men lie,,, for sure
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Good topic,, brother
thank u for giving the truth about lying
sounds very funny... to say the truth about lying
خخخخخخخخخ
see u later

[Another_One]

Wooh
Serious Topic ... i liked what you post Another_One

????u liked it ....for which reason
for lying itself
or
for truth itself

..... sometimes we like what we do

seven lies !!! That's a lot :shock22: and who did the studies >> most definitely a bunch of liars

:icon6: and the one who presented is the best lair

me ... not me ... me ... not me ... okay okay i addmit
but sometimes
not all the times

u not u ......u not u.....u not u.....
!!!! u addmit

Allah may forgive us and all our lies

okay i'll start practicing as from 2morrow

???Practice what
lying or not lying

thx Another_One
your really makes me feel Good
Nice One

than u dear sister
nice to see u here
and every where

[HIROSHI_11]

Hi bro

Thanks for the great topic

What can I say after all the things that Makawiyah said .

I agree with her



Thanks again

Bye

[Another_One]

Salam

wa alikom assalam warahmatu Allahi Wabarakatuh

i feel that "The Truth about Lying" would have been a better title



just a feeling

and sorry for talking about sth. which is none of my business



i wanted to help

!!!! sorry

??? so what is this forum for

come on ... say what u wanna say

and help as u like

i believe that friendship is built on saying the truth not lying
and those who lie to protect a friendship must reconsider their attitude
coz this would really harm the friendship,, not protect it
what if they were discoverd to be lying
what would be their excuse
nothing at all
not even the word "sorry",, isn't it

i'm with u .... but i forgot to say that the four first points are in Western Life
Lying is the End of Every relationship
and as we know alot of lying situations nowadays

this is good
BTW
stretching the truth is different from lying
lying : is to tell the opposite of the truth
stretching the truth: is not to tell the truth
u would simply hide the truth
and that's OK,, since it harms no one
and it doesnt lead u to lying
OK
we would stretch the truth to make someone feel good
and then,,,, what
when s/he would discover the truth
the case would be more miserable
wouldnt it

i got it ....but if s/he were worry about who's talking to and wanna
......protect the relationship as much as s/he can

i think s/he is wrong and wrong
but u know some events make us more stronger than be4

this was his point to protect his sister not to fall in .... without consideration

*****

Oh my God
men would really like this one
its their excuse to do whatsoever and then escape the results by lying
lol

if they say the truth to their wives .... means problems and problems
sleeping in the living room
watching Sudan channel
not perfumes
u know the rules

not all men lie,,, for sure

???why u r afraid
???why did u changed ur mind
:icon6: don't worry ... men are domesticated

Good topic,, brother
thank u for giving the truth about lying
sounds very funny... to say the truth about lying
خخخخخخخخخ

see u later

The Good thing in My topics that i saw ur posts even if it is one point

u encourage us and ur ways to speak is wonderful and funny

don't belive .. i was lying

nooo it is the truth ......i mean lying

u r confused now
loooooooool

anyway

u and ur posts r welcome and welcome

dear sister
i appreciate ur good cooperation

[المكاويه]

come on ... say what u wanna say]
and help as u like

thanks for encouraging me

Lying is the End of Every relationship

Well
not necessarily,,,, i believe
????or has that relationship ended

i got it ....but if s/he were worry about who's talking to and wanna
......protect the relationship as much as s/he can
i think s/he is wrong and wrong
but u know some events make us more stronger than be4
this was his point to protect his sister not to fall in .... without consideration

as a matter of fact
s/he should have thought of the Arabic proverb
الطيور على اشكالها تقع
and should have trusted the other party to be open-minded, understanding
and avobe all
logical and rational
i believe the other party would have preferred to know the truth,, and would have taken it more easily and simply,, if they knew it from the very beginning
coz this would have proved the first party to be more and more trustworthy
and it would have saved them alot of pain and thinking
:and
protecting one's sister doesnt come through using the wrong expressions in the wrong place
that would really distort the image of being a sister
and u r right
such situations make ppl much stonger
they teach them to think of every word they want to say b4 saying it
instead of enduring the pain of a broken heart
as an example of misusing the expressions

if they say the truth to their wives .... means problems and problems
sleeping in the living room
watching Sudan channel
not perfumes
u know the rules

lol
yeah
men r afraid of such things
then why should they do things which would never satisfy wives
instead of lying
or enduring such painful rules
they should simply be frank and faithful
and thats it
خخخخخخخخ

why u r afraid
???why did u changed ur mind
don't worry... men are domesticated

im not afraid
:icon6: i didnt change my mind
i didnt mean the same ppl i was talking about above
i.e. the first party
i meant other ppl
i know some men that would never lie
it happend once that my sister called my aunt's house
and my aunt was travelling ( not at home
so she asked her husband
???is my aunti asleep
he simply replied: "i dont know whether she is asleep or not at that time
"coz she is not home
:any other person would have said
"no she is not,, she's not home
but he thougth that his wife might be asleep at that time
and so he would be lying
......
????see whom i meant
BTW
what is domesitcated supposed to mean
???in this context

The Good thing in My topics that i saw ur posts even if it is one point
u encourage us and ur ways to speak is wonderful and funny
u and ur posts r welcome and welcome
dear sister
i appreciate ur good cooperation

i feel that u started not to like me replying to ur topics
or to any other topics
i feel sad for this attitude
wish im mistaken
:BTW

???what does one point mean

i appreciate ur reading this long reply


and ur enduring my comments and ur answering my Qs
thanks brother

[Another_One]

المكاويه

thanks for encouraging me

it is my pleasure sister

Well
not necessarily,,,, i believe
????or has that relationship ended

No ... No

it is started a new era

as a matter of fact
s/he should have thought of the Arabic proverb
الطيور على اشكالها تقع
and should have trusted the other party to be open-minded, understanding
and avobe all
logical and rational
i believe the other party would have preferred to know the truth,, and would have taken it more easily and simply,, if they knew it from the very beginning
coz this would have proved the first party to be more and more trustworthy
and it would have saved them alot of pain and thinking
:and
protecting one's sister doesnt come through using the wrong expressions in the wrong place
that would really distort the image of being a sister

As i thought ....still the big heart i knew

and u r right
such situations make ppl much stonger
they teach them to think of every word they want to say b4 saying it
instead of enduring the pain of a broken heart
as an example of misusing the expressions

u remind me everyday
but i know that u don't want to torment me
at least we still know each other
and that is better

[Another_One]

im not afraid
:icon6: i didnt change my mind
i didnt mean the same ppl i was talking about above
i.e. the first party
i meant other ppl
i know some men that would never lie
it happend once that my sister called my aunt's house
and my aunt was travelling ( not at home
so she asked her husband
???is my aunti asleep
he simply replied: "i dont know whether she is asleep or not at that time
"coz she is not home
:any other person would have said
"no she is not,, she's not home
but he thougth that his wife might be asleep at that time
and so he would be lying

loooooooooool

goooood movment

????see whom i meant
BTW
what is domesitcated supposed to mean
???in this context

.... u know
i'm still not good at english
but it's the oppsite of monster
i meant men are domesitcated not monsters
look at me ...i'm a good example

i feel that u started not to like me replying to ur topics
or to any other topics
i feel sad for this attitude
wish im mistaken

of course mistaken and mistaken
English Forum without u equals 0
really i mean it
i expect a wonderful futur for u here and in ur life

i'll do my best to be distinguished

???what does one point mean

i mean this
if u post in my topic this point
(.)
it is my best moment ...and i will appreciate it dear sister
so don't think wrongly
and if u asked me not to post in ur topic i'll not obey
:icon6: i will post and post ...then they close it

i appreciate ur reading this long reply
and ur enduring my comments and ur answering my Qs
thanks brother

loooool
???so why i put this topic
???to read and go
asking and discussing is my problem
but i would like to improve my english skills with someone i respect

come on sister ... ask again and again
:icon6: may be u get a good job in FBI

see ya

[المكاويه]

English Forum without u equals 0
really i mean it
i expect a wonderful futur for u here and in ur life
i'll do my best to be distinguished

!!!!!not that much
thank u
u really embarrased me

and if u asked me not to post in ur topic i'll not obey
i will post and post ...then they close it

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
thats what u r looking for
????may i ask a Q
why do u want my topics to be closed
dont u like them
that really bothered me
and this is not the first time u say that

asking and discussing is my problem

me too
im always used to bothering my teachers by asking and asking
i would never stop discussing
some of them like that sooooooo much
and they consider me to be the best
some others dislike it
and they just want to answer the Q without discussing it
i hate that
but i would never stop
....since they bother us by asking difficult Qs on the exams
i would bother them by asking even more difficult Qs in the class
and it happened more than once
that i asked Qs that seemed to be very complicated
some of them couldnt answer them
poor me

but i would like to improve my english skills with someone i respect

Then
u've really got it
im one of the best in my dept
if not the best
and i do respect u
and ur desire for improving ur lang
thats really respectful

come on sister ... ask again and again

OK
here we go
????what do u think of a person that has never been in love
what is the most important factor that affects the relation between men and women
How do u feel about being a friend of mine
???why do u like the green color
why do u like this forum
???what is ur favorite dish
???what is ur favorite channel
???and why do u like it







???is that enough

or shall i go on

may be u get a good job in FBI

looooooool
i hate the FBI
or
:let me say
i would start being the forum's detective
خخخخخخخخخخ






try to answer the Qs
and i'll come back with some more

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[springtime]

Hello Another-one

[English Forum without you equals 0]..????????????!!!!!!!!!!!

Excuse me ??????????!!!!!!!!!!

See, although I do respect Makkawea and I do like all her contributions, but you really can't say this….
We have so many members and I think their
contributions and topics are all very valuable and worth reading

And if you’re saying what you said only to please Makkawea or to make it up for her for something you’ve already done or said, I think you can do so anywhere else through e-mail or messenger, without hurting others, in this forum we all have to show some respect to each other

You know, it sounded that the topics posted by others are worthless even if you didn’t mean so
. Please don’t be offended…. I really meant no harm
All I wanted is to draw your attention to this

Please try to accept what I wrote openly .....I know that you said so without bad intentions
but we all have to be careful and and we should'nt undermine others efforts.

Hope that you don't get upset ... I really want the best for this forum and all members

soooooo sorry for the bad formatting but I sometimes face problems with my PC I guess

Best Regards
Have a nice evening all