Seven Keys to a Great Relationship

[MustafaMM]

Salam & Hi everybody, InshAllah you all are doing doing just fine, Well while watching a common tv show a word crossed my mind, It's "Keys" Yeah as we all know many philosophers spoke about the keys of success, Like the one I came this time with, & The ones that I'll "InshAllah" look for in the near future for more successful members in our lovely forum...

Here You Go

Are you ready to create the relationship you desire? When you have the ingredients to a successful partnership, your chances of maintaining a strong, love connection can be increased. Love is not enough. It also takes commitment to self-growth, communication, and unconditional love.

The following seven guidelines can assist you to attract and enjoy a successful relationship.

1. I am ready to create what I want in a relationship.
Become clear about what you want in your relationship. Then share your thoughts with your partner. Know that you are powerful enough to have what you desire and that you deserve it.

2. I am my own best friend and I am responsible for my own life and happiness.
Love and like yourself and look to your relationship as the icing on the cake. Know that you are whole and complete by yourself and that you are the only one who can bring you lasting happiness.

3. I am learning to communicate clearly, specifically and constructively.
Take the time to communicate with yourself so that you can clearly tell your partner how you feel and what you want and need. Remember that you are responsible for all of your emotions and that you are okay no matter what your partner says or does.

4. I am letting go of hurtful thoughts and feelings from my past relationships.
Heal your past issues with your parents, siblings, and other loved ones. Then you will be able to clearly see your partner for who he or she really is.

5. I am continually seeking excitement, fun, and the magic of life with my partner.
Be romantic and explore different activities that you and your partner can enjoy. Create new ways to have fun and to keep your relationship alive and stimulating. For example, schedule weekly date nights.

6. I am encouraging my partner and myself to explore and develop our individual potentials.
Both you and your loved one will be a lot happier when you become all that you are. It takes two happy people to make a happy, successful relationship.

7. I love and accept my partner and myself unconditionally.
Focus on unconditionally loving yourself and then you will be able to offer the same true love to your partner. Unconditional love means heartfelt caring and kindness even though you may not approve of an action. It is an important key to health, happiness, success, and a fantastic relationship.

Hope you liked it...
Edited by Mustafa

[katsumi san]

Nice topic brother mustafa
thanks a lot for sharing
^^

As a matter of fact it needs a lot of effort to build a strong & powerful relationship with others
these keys can be applied in a perfect
world not in our material world

let's try to apply this formula in reality

Become clear about what you want in your relationship
share your thoughts with your partner

Many or approximately all people find it difficult to share one's thoughts
or even to trust others

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I am learning to communicate clearly, specifically and constructively.
Take the time to communicate with yourself so that you can clearly tell your partner how you feel and what you want and need.

several people find it difficult
to communicate with themselves
or even to express their feeligs & needs
to their most closer people
(I mean family & relatives)
so what about a stranger
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you are okay no matter what your partner says or does

almost all people care about what the others say

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I am letting go of hurtful thoughts and feelings from my past relationships

Easy to say
but
So hard & difficult to apply

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I love and accept my partner and myself unconditionally

this really can happen in the begining
of a relationship/friendship
but with time the partners or friends start losing this concept

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Indeed there are some successful relationships
but they are sooo rare
That's why nowadays you can't find a real & loving friend or partner
isn't that true
?

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sorry for making my reply so long
and thanks alot for the wonderful thread

^^

[مستر حريقة]

1. I am ready to create what I want in a relationship.
Become clear about what you want in your relationship. Then share your thoughts with your partner. Know that you are powerful enough to have what you desire and that you deserve it.

2. I am my own best friend and I am responsible for my own life and happiness.
Love and like yourself and look to your relationship as the icing on the cake. Know that you are whole and complete by yourself and that you are the only one who can bring you lasting happiness.

3. I am learning to communicate clearly, specifically and constructively.
Take the time to communicate with yourself so that you can clearly tell your partner how you feel and what you want and need. Remember that you are responsible for all of your emotions and that you are okay no matter what your partner says or does.

4. I am letting go of hurtful thoughts and feelings from my past relationships.
Heal your past issues with your parents, siblings, and other loved ones. Then you will be able to clearly see your partner for who he or she really is.

5. I am continually seeking excitement, fun, and the magic of life with my partner.
Be romantic and explore different activities that you and your partner can enjoy. Create new ways to have fun and to keep your relationship alive and stimulating. For example, schedule weekly date nights.

6. I am encouraging my partner and myself to explore and develop our individual potentials.
Both you and your loved one will be a lot happier when you become all that you are. It takes two happy people to make a happy, successful relationship.

7. I love and accept my partner and myself unconditionally.
Focus on unconditionally loving yourself and then you will be able to offer the same true love to your partner. Unconditional love means heartfelt caring and kindness even though you may not approve of an action. It is an important key to health, happiness, success, and a fantastic relationship

Hope you liked it...

Edited by Mustafa

I dont think that everyone can do the whole 7 steps
Its not that easy.... But I think its good trying to work on it
Thank you alot Mustafa
May God bless you

[شذى 1988]

thank you!!

[MustafaMM]

Thank you so much everyone for dropping by
& Special thanks to Katsumi for her wonderful comments
& Yeah I completely agree with you
You can never find "The One" No matter hard you try

May Allah bless you & Grant you your deepest desires....